A concept I find useful to share in birth classes is that of Rhythm, Relaxation, and Ritual–the Three R’s of Childbirth. This is a concept developed by Penny Simkin and is illustrated in her labor support video by the same name. Ritual refers to a repetitive coping mechanism that spontaneously arises during labor–it usually is rhythmic and may be something like humming, singing, repeating a favorite phrase, tapping, vocalizing, rocking, swaying. You can think about and plan for possible labor rituals in advance, but the ritual that is most useful to you is often one that just arises on its own during your own individual labor and birth.

These are three R’s that enhance a woman’s experience of birth and help her cope with her sensations. When thinking about them today, I also came up with three R’s that detract from a woman’s birth experience: Routine, Restriction, and Risk (perception of).

I also considered other supporting R’s: Rest, Relationships, Rapport, and Respect.