A Birth Healing Blessing
Blessed sister, beautiful one
with broken wings.
Your journey is a difficult one…
that no mother should have to endure.
Your path is steep, rocky and slippery
and your tender heart is in need of gentle healing.
Breathe deeply and know that you are loved.
You are not alone,
though at times, you will feel like a
desolate island of grief
Close your eyes.
Seek the wisdom of women who have walked this well-worn path before you,
and before you yourself were born.
These beautiful ones
with eyes like yours
have shared your pain, and
weathered the storms of loss.
You are not alone (breathe in)
You will go on (breathe out)
Your wings will mend (breathe in)
You are loved (breathe out)
~ Mary Burgess (Mending Invisible Wings)
Today is the Day of Hope and Healing, a national remembrance day for families who have experienced miscarriage, stillbirth, infant or child loss. Tonight, one of my friends is having a Day of Hope event for local families. I’m happy to participate and I picked out the poem above to read. I also made a prayer flag as part of the prayer flag project. I included lines from a song that spoke to me deeply during my second miscarriage. I left the mama’s arms unglued so that they can close, open, or wave in the breeze. Unfortunately, the glue I used leaked through, which gives her a “weeping Madonna” quality. I was bugged by it at first and almost didn’t show a picture, but then I decided I actually like it like that!
This week is also The Amethyst Network’s third birthday. I helped co-found this organization as a direct result of my own in-the-midst-of-miscarriage-realization about the need for miscarriage doulas in the world, and I’m proud of the resources we’ve collected and the services we offer to women around the country. As TAN posted on our Facebook page:
We hope you’ll join us in celebrating this week by doing random acts of kindness or paying it forward and then coming back here and telling us about what you did. Whether it’s related to your baby’s memory or not, what goes around comes around, and TAN believes in being a force for good in the world. We hope you will join us in celebrating our birthday by giving gifts to those around us.
***Giveaway now closed. Ravenna was the winner!***
So, I decided to offer a pendant giveaway in honor of TAN’s birthday! (I also reached 500,000 hits last week and I often do a giveaway for things like that, so it is doubly time to do one!) I made this pendant last night specifically for TAN’s birthday. It has a footprints charm like the one that was so meaningful to me, a howlite stone, and also a tiny amethyst heart (and a freshwater pearl). It comes on a simple ribbon, but can easily be taken off and added to your favorite chain instead. You don’t have to do anything fancy to enter, just leave a comment. If you’d like to share The Amethyst Network’s page or website with your Facebook friends or followers, then you can earn a bonus entry! (just make sure to leave another comment telling me you did so)
The giveaway will close next Monday night.
I also made a diverse assortment of birth art goddesses last night and I decided to make a miscarriage mama with a footprints charm too. She is purple and is holding an amethyst crystal, in honor of The Amethyst Network’s birthday too! I haven’t decided what to do with her yet…keep her…sell her…do another giveaway…
Here are the rest of the mamas who came to life in my hands last night:
There are some VBAC mamas, a river mama, a laboring mama, a birthing mama, a moon mama, and a loss mama. I’m working on adding them to my etsy shop along with some more new pendants! 🙂
The pendant you are giving away is beautiful! I lost my Cory almost 4 years ago and didn’t find this blog or your facebook page until about 8 months ago, but it has been instrumental in my continued healing. I have since shared your pages with my dear sisters-in-grief. thank you for helping us all speak out in our pain.
The pendant is beautiful. I would love to win and send it to a friend who is experiencing fresh loss. Thank you.
What a beautiful, heartfelt poem. Thank you so much for all that you do!
What a lovely pendant. I’ll have to check out the TAN page on FB. We lost a son during birth 9 years ago and have also lost 4 children to miscarriage.
Your flag was so lovely last night at the event! I am so glad that you came. And this bauble charm is so amazingly beautiful ❤
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Wow. This is a gorgeous pendant. Love it. May the Goddess embrace all the mothers who had miscarriage and their sacred children, in this world or in the other world. Shared the facebook page and the website of The Amethyst Network on my facebook page.
I drew numbers and your are the winner, Ravenna!
What a moving poem that you chose to share with us and your Medicine woman poem goes hand in hand with this one too. Your art and words are beautiful!
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